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As I sit down to write this, I am asking myself, “what is the smartest thing you’re thinking about right now?” I want to cut through the mess and share smart thought-provoking thoughts here. But the truth is that my smarts are kind of scattered right now.

During the times when I feel healthiest, I am enjoying a routine. I journal in the mornings. I read a bit in the morning as well. Then I work for a short period of time. I go to yoga or for a walk. In the evening, I do something creative (crochet/collage) while watching a movie (foreign/documentary). I go out a few times a week with friends for discussion and entertainment. The entertainment is often educational/artsy/cultural.

However, I fall out of this pattern as often as I fall into it. At the moment, the routine has faded. There are still a lot of smart, creative things happening in my life but they feel more scattered. There are books on my bed but none are succeeding in capturing my daily interest. I’m watching addiction shows (Intervention/Hoarders) more than the movies in Spanish I really want to be watching. I’m working more than usual and going to yoga less.

It used to be that I’d beat myself up when I fell into times like this. I felt like the routine way of doing things was “right” and this was “wrong”. That’s changed in the past year or so, though. I know that the routine feels better in a lot of ways and I aim for that. However, I also know that sometimes ideas and thoughts and understanding emerge from the messiness of less routine times.

I do think that I need to make a concentrated effort to journal more and go to yoga more. Those things bring me back to myself so that I can actually analyze and understand and articulate what’s going on in my head. The rest will sort itself out.

And honestly, I think that might be the smartest thought that I can offer today … to aim for great things for yourself but cut yourself a lot of slack when you aren’t doing precisely what you think you ought to be doing.

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I’ve lost and found and changed the point of this blog so many times that it almost seems silly to keep it up. However, I think it’s a good example of the way a mind changes as it works through itself. The goals of the blog have changed as I have changed and they’re changing yet again. I hope this time the changes will be more permanent.

Goals for the past have included sharing what I’m doing and reading and thinking about, aggregating some of the work that I’m doing in other places around the web and linking to sites for other people. These conflicting goals have created a spot here that’s haphazard and unclear. I suppose that is much the same as my real “diary”. (I prefer the term journal.)

What I’m really wanting to do with this blog is to stop treating it like any kind of other blog that I do. I do a lot of writing for clients across a diverse range of different blogs. I have become so accustomed to writing in the traditional blog style that it’s crept into my other writing. For example, keywords have infiltrated all types of writing that I do.

I want to break through that and get back to writing from a truer voice. I’ve started that by doing some other types of writing – such as poetry and lyrics – that is so different in style that it’s easier to get out of the mold of my work writing. I want to expand that and I think this blog is a good place to do that. A smart chick always pushes herself towards her most genuine goals.

So what’s the point of Diary of a Smart Chick? It’s to share what I hope are smart thoughts and information but in a way that reflects my real voice. By this I mean the voice that I use in my own journal and creative writing, the voice that my mind thinks in (as opposed to the traditional voice I’ve grown so accustomed to using in so many blogs and articles). I think this will ultimately help me to learn what I want as a writer.

I’m working on it. And I hope that the result is writing that readers will enjoy for what it is rather than what it links to. We shall see. Day one …

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I just finished reading a memoir that was a quick read but one that was really interesting. I love memoirs because they give you insight into someone else’s way of life but also tend to provide things that you can relate to in order to make the story feel like your own. That’s exactly the case with this memoir which is technically about growing up in the grips of a spiritual cult but ultimately about learning how to figure out who you are outside of the experiences you had growing up.

The woman who wrote the book, Jayanti Tamm, was born into Sri Chinmoy’s spiritual cult. Because procreating was forbidden but she was born anyway, he determined that she was brought into this world as his Chosen One. Growing up, she held a special place in the cult that placed a barrier between her and the rest of the world. She didn’t ask her parents or teachers for advice or material things; she had to ask her Guru.

As you can imagine, she eventually found herself disillusioned with the cult beliefs that she had been brought up to believe. Most of the memoir is about the experience of growing up in the cult and the transition from being an unquestioning child follower to a confused, unsure, questioning young adult.

Towards the end of the memoir, Tamm leaves the cult for a time and ultimately is kicked out of it. What we see here is the inner turmoil that one goes through when leaving behind the ways of childhood. Of course, most of us have not grown up in situations so extreme as cult life. Nevertheless, many struggle in smaller ways to reconcile their adult beliefs with what they were taught as children. That’s how this book manages to be relatable to us even though it’s specifically about cult life.

Interesting read!

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One of the things that I love about being in my hometown is that it’s a good time for me to go to the movies. I don’t go out to movies all that often when I’m in San Francisco. This is due mostly to the cost of seeing a full-priced movie there (actual cost plus transportation cost etc.) compared to hitting the matinee with my mom in Tucson. It’s also due to the fact that there are so many other cheap/free/similarly-priced events and activities to enjoy in San Francisco so it seems like a waste to spend that time and money on a mainstream movie. And I suppose it’s due a bit to the fact that I don’t ever find it all that easy to find a friend in San Francisco who also wants to spend the time and money on the same mainstream movie that I do. So going to the movies is something I don’t do much anymore but still love to do when I’m back with my family.

I wouldn’t say that we typically see the smartest movies although some of the ones that we go watch are certainly smart. I’m just as happy to see a dumb chick flick with my mom and sister as to see the latest smart indie film. It’s more about the experience and the time spent together than the film itself. So I wasn’t necessarily expecting much from Blind Side which we went to go see this morning. All I really expected was that it would be a decent story with decent actors and that we’d have a good time together just hanging out at the theatre. We did have a good time together but Blind Side ended up being better than I’d expected it to be.

For those who don’t know, the movie is based on a book which is based on the true story of a teenager who grew up in the ghetto and ended up homeless when he’s taken in by a rich white family. The story is fairly predictable … they become his family, they help him with school, he ends up succeeding and gets a football scholarship. It’s a pretty straightforward story line.

However there were definitely some smart things about it that I liked. The main thing was that the movie depicts the fact that these rich white Republicans have some self-doubt as to their own motivations for taking this kid in. They wonder if they’re doing the right thing and if they’re doing it for the right reasons. Are they just getting a feel-good kick out of helping someone out? Are they pushing their own expectations on to him? Although the movie doesn’t delve deeply into these feelings, it poses the questions and acknowledges the fact that this is an issue that people in their position would have to deal with internally. Although I think that we often see characters in films having to deal with this issue externally (which we see here as well when the mother’s friends question her choice and consider it a charity act) we see it less often in terms of how people themselves question their own motives. It’s a smart twist even if it’s not explored in depth.

There were certainly some aspects of the storyline that I wondered about. The movie depicts this seventeen-year-old kid just naturally fitting in fairly well with this new family. I find it difficult to believe that the transition into a family was easy for him at that point. Based on my own experience working with foster children, there’s just a lot of wariness and a period of adapting that we don’t see in the film. In that way, I don’t think that the film revealed enough about the issues that the characters must have dealt with. So it falls short of what my full expectations would be if I were going to write the film but it exceeded the expectations that I had of it as a mainstream movie.

Mostly I guess I the movie captured my attention less for what it showed than what it didn’t show. It got my curious about the life of Michael Oher and how it all really played out for him as compared to what the movie depicted. I am particularly interested in learning more about how college went for him, how difficult it was to adjust to leaving his new family as soon as they’d adopted him and how hard the transition was to living on his own on a college campus. I am curious about the politics behind the NCAA investigation of his choice to attend the alma mater of his new foster parents – why did the NCAA do this and what other cases similar to this have there been. The movie interested me because it left this questions open which makes me inclined to do more research into the topic now that I’ve left the theater.

Is Blind Side worth seeing? I probably wouldn’t have bothered in San Francisco but I’m glad that I saw it while back at home. If you saw it, I’d love to know what you thought about it! Leave it in the comments.

What other bloggers have written about Blind Side:

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After having ceased personal blogging for several months I am about to resume all three of my blogs. There will be once weekly posts on my writing blog (Real Words) and my San Francisco blog (San Francisco is Sexy). There will also be fresh new regular posts here on Diary of a Smart Chick. I’ve set some new rules for myself about the new posts here on this site. Those rules include:

  • I will post at least three times per week. I was posting here multiple times per day but that is just a bit too much. Ideally I’d like to post her five times per week but I’m committing to at least three.
  • I will only link to the articles I’ve written that most interested me. One of the purposes of this blog is to share information about the other topics I write about on various blogs. However in the past I was linking to almost every article I wrote around the web. Instead I’m just going to be highlighting the topics that were truly interesting to me and elaborating on them here on this blog.
  • I’ll be posting on smart stuff that captures my interest. One of the points of this blog is that I am a smart chick who likes a diverse range of different random smart stuff. I’ll be linking to more of that stuff and sharing my opinion on it.
  • I’ll be resuming some regular posts but I’m not sure which ones yet. I had been doing a question of the week, a book of the day and a photo of the day. I’ll be resuming some of those things but probably less often and I haven’t made a final decision on the schedule for doing that yet. It’s something that you’ll see incorporated into the blog over the next month or so.
  • Photos on all posts will be taken by me or attributed to the photographer via a link. I had been using a lot of my own photos on the blog but I was also using random images from Flickr and Google Images. I’ll be primarily using my own photos on the blog posts now or else I’ll include a photo that I like but will link you back to its source so you can learn more about it if you’d like to.
That’s about it for now. New posts resume next week. I hope that you enjoy the return of Diary of a Smart Chick … I’m excited about it!
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Two of my blog posts were recently included in a great Blog Carnival called Advice for Women from Women. My first post was about how each business is part of a collaborative process of business. I think that this is something that women inherently understand better than most men do. My second post was a warning about scams.

Other cool posts that were included in this blog carnival were on topics like:

Check them out – happy reading!

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I’ve decided to start doing something new in July. I’m going to add photos to this blog. I take a lot of pictures. I take pictures of the things that I’m doing and the people that I’m with. I take pictures of the flowers that I buy for my home and the projects that I’m engaged in around the house. A lot of these photos just end up sitting on my computer for years and years. After all, you can only hang and scrapbook so many images. I’d like to put them to some sort of use and I figured that this blog was a great place to do that.

I figured I’d start this new project off today, on the last day of June, with a photo roundup of some of the things that I did this month. Hope you enjoy!

 

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This photo is from the Chico River. I had a really great day at the river with several people that I love. We picnicked, floated down the river and soaked up the sun.

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Keep reading…

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Just a quick note to let you know about a new feature that will be starting up here on Diary of a Smart Chick for the month of July. I’m going to be doing daily book recommendations. I read a lot of books. I usually read mutliple books at one time and I try to read daily. As a result, I have opinions on a lot of different books and I’d like some place to share those opinions. I’m hoping that this blog will serve as a good place. If it does then I’ll continue posting daily about different books for the rest of the year (with July being the trial for that). Would love to get your feedback on this new feature as the month goes on so feel free to leave your comments!

Note: I use Paperback Swap to trade books. I think it’s a great way to get books at a super low cost as well as a great way to recycle the books that I’m done reading. The first set of books that I’ll be reviewing on Diary of a Smart Chick will be from my bookshelf of available books on Paperback Swap. After that I’ll continue with the books on my own shelf and the books I’m getting from the library.

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I’m happy to see that a favorite post of mine from this blog was included in the We’re Not Kids Anymore blog carnival. The blog carnival is about health, diet, fitness and nutrition. The post is about the need for patients to advocate for themselves. I really think that this is important so I’m glad that the thought is being spread around through the carnival.

The post is in good company with a lot of other great articles on health topics. Some of those topics were:

And for even more happy reading, you can check out the links on the posts about 50 top weight loss blogs and the top 50 surgeon bloggers. If you’re moer of a visual person, check out the movie trailer for Food Inc.

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One of the posts that I wrote about in the not too distant past on this blog was about serving drinks as a career. There are a lot of pros and cons to being a bartender but it’s definitely one job choice for a lot of people. Employment is a big issues for a lot of people right now and it’s discussed intelligently through the many different articles submitted to the Career and Internships blog carnival where my own post was featured.

The other articles that were included in this carnival were on different jobs, careers and job issues. These topics included job interview tricks and tips, looking for and finding a new job using today’s technology, working after retirement, working for love vs. money and the issue of boring employment. All quite important topics for the working world today I think.

What other topics do you wish would have been covered here? It seems that we’re talking a lot about how to get or keep jobs in today’s recession but are there other employment issues that are also pressing which aren’t being covered by your favorite blogs? Tell me, I’d love to know!

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